Hmm. I don’t know what quantifies as “the biggest”. Most violent? Longest-lasting (in terms of no longer on speaking terms)?!
If it’s most violent…it was probably with my ex-boyfriend and his then girlfriend. He was coming round to see me on occasion (and yes, at one point we did have sex – I’m not proud of myself. I was no longer in love with him. I was using him as such as he was using me – and mine was an even worse betrayal, because I was hoping to get pregnant. Not to get him back, mind! That was never my intention. It was just a VERY brief period of time in which I thought I wanted a child. If I had fallen pregnant, I had no intention of telling him. I wanted to raise the child alone). To cut a long story short, his girlfriend found out that he was coming round to mine to see me. She wasn’t best pleased. Rightfully so. But, he had been seeing her before he broke up with me…so I was kind of claiming it as karma.
Yes, I know!! I really am not proud of my actions! It gets worse. She confronted me at my door. I wasn’t really in the mood to justify myself and I also carried the hurt from what they had both done to me. I didn’t want to talk. I wanted her gone and when she refused to leave, I got physical. Quite badly physical. I’m not going to go into detail, but what I did to her I would never, ever do to anyone EVER again. She could have had me arrested for assault. I would have!
I didn’t stop there, either. I grabbed my ex by the back of the neck and, quite literally, threw him out my front door. Adrenalin pumping through my body from the altercation with his girlfriend, I was able to actually pick him up and throw him out the door!
The next day, I spoke to them both, apologised profusely and kind of made my peace with them. I never really saw them after that. I have no idea if they are still together now. They were together for a while, as far as I know and had children together.
But yes. That was a pretty big and violent fight.